Thursday, September 22, 2005

IFOS to Volgograd



We had just got back from KLIA after sending ifos off to Volgograd. It will be another 10 months before her summer vacation.

The first time ifos had to leave home was after UPSR. she was selected to school at SMAP Kajang. a day prior to registration, we did a quick look at the school environment and we did not like it. with ifos down with fever, we decided to call it off. we had to bring back the baldi, cebuk, hanger in the kelompin etc.

after PMR results, she was not chosen to continue at MRSM where she applied. the ses is what that failed all my kids is getting the oppotunity to study at residential schools. So ifos continue with the day school, SMART Kuantan.

We managed to sent her off to matriculation college at kuala pilah where she could not adjust herself in. she did frequent home travellings, multiple visits by us made us expert travelling around kuala pilah.

today, our little-big girl is off to volgograd. we are happy but also sad as it will be months before seeing her again... we will miss her much. we pray for Allah to protect her and give he His Guidance and Blessings.

21 comments:

drroza said...

We will definitely miss you so much. In fact coming back home and seeing your empty (but already cleaned room, yes Fi, it's sparkling clean) room, brings sadness to our hearts. Fi, nampak sentra tu terus teringat kat Fi...sedih tol...:((

drroza said...

p.s. siapa nak hantar budak2 tu pergi sekolah esok pagi?..*sigh*

pycnogenol said...

Sentimental pycnogenol is also feeling "sebak di dada" - HONEST!!
Looking at the pic you've posted ikelah, iFos appeared so lost and forlorn.....

Just remember you two - Your little girl is an intelligent, independent woman now. It's time to let her fly and go in search of her own destiny.
Believe me....that grown up, independent woman will ALWAYS be your little girl!!! She will not want it any other way.....

uipts said...

anak2 dah besar macamtu lah kan
akhirnya emak ayah juga
terkontang kanting keseorangan

drroza said...

uipts, sedihkan? Macam mana kita buat kat parents kita begitulah yang jadi kepada kita!

Ikelah said...

Thanks for the responses.
Out duty is to bring them up well. a white sheet of cloth and its us who determine the color.

As for all parents, we all love our children equally? i dont think so.
we love and treat them differently for their traits and personality. it doesnt mean we love one more than the other. the interaction is unique; we can joke endlessly with one but not the other, we ask favors from one without hesitation but not the other.
what is most important, we love all of them, always by their side in time of need, a place for them to pour their difficulties, a place to share their joy with endless doa for their happiness here and hereafter.

P5 said...

werq, i am convinced that while you were writing that blog, your eyes were full of tears. the last line in your post proved it all... you called iFos a HE!

i've still got a long way to go, and you've got another come up next year...

kenakelayan said...

wah sayu sungguh... has she called home yet? i daren't call Sarah as she gets charged for me calling her... apa punya phone system ni...

kenakelayan said...

takpe ifos tu bukan lost and forlorn, tapi confused look (line mana aku nak kena beratur nih?)

when i was coming back to UK last year, we (me and hubby) got confused jugak sebab ada line khas untuk 'Program Pengampunan'.. full of Bangladeshis and Indonesians going home with items such as comforter berbulu etc etc. needless to say sebab my flight was Emirates yang singgah kat Dhaka, ramailah geng geng program pengampunan in my flight! ada yang gatal.. nasib baik hubby ada to stare them down (aparaa tak tahu ke kena tundukkan pandangan, bukan pandangan menusuk kat pramugari tuh...)

Anonymous said...

Ifos, memang confusing line kat imigresen tu. Ada line Warganegara tu memang lah untuk kita biasa biasa ni. Yang line pengampunan tu, kalau rasa ada buat salah n nak buat confession. Line hijau tu kalau pakai pasport tabung haji warna hijau. Line lain lain tu tak yah ambik kisah la sebab tu untuk orang yang kita tak kenal.Anak kawe lambat lagi la. Masa tu agaknya dah ada teleporter kot. Belajar di Rusia pun boleh balik hari. Kelik kat yahoo porter je dah boleh balik rumah makan nasik.

Ikelah said...

system phone dia memang macam tu, thats y... if i need to call, i'll make it short...dia punye credit turun dan my bill naik.

dia sedang tunggu kawan dia yang kena tahan pasal hand luggage oleh 1st security. ifos kena tahan hand luggage masa nak naik flight... dia kate too heavy... mana tak.. 15 kg(.... bawa batu lesong!) dan yang excess baggage 3 kg( kena bayar rm160 per kg excess) dia masukkan ke hand luggage.
so they think its too heavy for her... hand luggage jadi baggage without extra charge. alhamdulillah.

People of the World said...

Ikelah, you talk holy there man. Those equality in love and justice in treating each differently is one hell of a view. I totally agree with you and in fact it`s exactly the same thing with polygamy. I hope understanding and agreement on this matter will have a wider coverage and not limited to parent-children relationship.
You really rock man.

hiyoshi said...

The picture could've been used as a promotion for the drama 'Lost'.

Don't worry too much over her. If what I read from her blogs are true, then she'll have no difficulty adapting over there (well, perhaps with the exception of the cold)

crimsonskye said...

That's a hand luggage?? wow ;)

and i'd like to say how much your comment about parents' love for their children has touched me. gives me a really new perspective as a child myself.

ifos said...

abah... i said NO PICS!!! isk2... thanks anyway for this entry ;)

Nurelhuda said...

Matrikulasi KP. You know the road is much much improved. It used to be koner baring this way and then koner baring the other way....hairpin bends.
My experience of going to KP for a friend's wedding 20 odd years ago and then some few years ago when no 2 son got sent to matrik KP

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